Your Wife/Girlfriend Isn't Your Coach (And That's Actually Good News)

"Great, another woman telling me what to do."

I get it. But here's the difference—I don't care if you take out the trash or remember anniversaries.

Your personal relationships come with emotional investment, history, and expectations. She wants you to change because it affects her life. She's frustrated because she's tried to tell you the same thing 47 times. I have zero emotional attachment to your choices. I don't care if you work late, travel for business, or spend money on things that make no sense to me. I care about one thing: are you getting the results you want?

This detachment is your advantage. No emotional baggage clouding the feedback. No personal agenda behind the advice. No hurt feelings if you need to hear something harsh.

She loves you. I'm here to make you more effective. Those are completely different jobs.

The result is you get strategic insight without the relationship drama. You get someone who can challenge your thinking without it affecting your home life.