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Your Identity Is Running your life (And You Didn’t Even Pick It)
You’ve been doing all the things, manifesting, journaling, vision boards, “positive vibes only.” But somehow, you keep ending up in the...
Aug 32 min read


How Past Trauma Shapes Your Patterns (And Why I Talk About It)
I talk a lot about nervous systems, patterns, and why we repeat cycles that keep us stuck. But sometimes in all that excitement I forget...
Jul 231 min read
Why One Bad Moment Ruins Your Day (And How to Stop It)
Ever had one tiny thing spilling coffee, waking up late, a tense text — snowball into a whole bad day? That’s not bad luck. It’s your...
Jul 231 min read


Why You Keep Ending Up in the Same Fights, Jobs, or Relationships
(No, it’s not just “who you are”) Ever catch yourself thinking, “Wait… how the did I get here again?” Same fight. Same dynamic. Same “I’m...
Jul 221 min read
Fearful Avoidant Attachment Isn’t “Just Confused in Love”. It’s Confused in Every Facet of Life
You’re not indecisive. You’re not flaky. You’re not even purposely playing games. You’re running a nervous system that got programmed to...
Jul 223 min read
Anxious Attachment Isn’t Just About Dating & relationships. It's effects everything.
This isn’t just about your love life. Anxious attachment is how your brain scans every space, friendships, work, even sex, for signs...
Jul 212 min read
Avoidant Attachment Isn’t Just About Dating. It Shows Up Everywhere.
It’s your nervous system running the same old safety play in every part of your life. You’ve probably heard the term avoidant attachment...
Jul 213 min read
Results Over Relationship: How Female Coaches Get Different Results
"Can a woman really understand the challenges I face as a male leader?" Yes I can. I don't need to be you to see your patterns. I don't...
Jul 111 min read
The Straight Talk Advantage: Why Sugar-Coating Doesn't Work
"You're procrastinating because you're afraid of the conversation, not because you don't have time." "You're not overwhelmed by your...
Jul 111 min read
Your Wife/Girlfriend Isn't Your Coach (And That's Actually Good News)
"Great, another woman telling me what to do." I get it. But here's the difference—I don't care if you take out the trash or remember...
Jul 111 min read
The 'Fix Me' Trap: Why I Won't Try to Change Who You Are
I'm not here to fix you. You're not broken. You're successful, driven, and getting results. But you're also leaving performance on the...
Jul 111 min read
Why Men Actually Prefer Female Coaches (And Don't Even Realize It)
You already trust women with your most important decisions. That business partner who calls you out when you're about to make a stupid...
Jul 111 min read
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